Review: Philemon
was a Christian man from the city of Colossae, who was saved because of the
ministry of the Apostle Paul. Philemon
was also a wealthy man because his house was big enough for a church
congregation to meet in and he owned at least one slave. It is this slave that our story turns. His name was Onesimus and one day he stole
some money from Philemon and ran away.
Once he escaped he made it all the way to Rome. While in Rome trying to “get lost” in the
busyness of Rome’s capital, he ran into none other than the Apostle Paul, who
was himself under arrest and awaiting trial.
Paul the great evangelist led Onesimus to faith in Christ and the slave
became free in the truest sense – “free from his sins”. Jesus said, “the truth will set you free. If the Son sets you free you are free indeed.”
#4: The Apostle’s Assistant (v11)
Somehow it came to light afterwards that Paul had in
front of him a runaway slave belonging to a man he knew personally. The right thing for Onesimus to do was go
back to his master, Philemon. After
staying with Paul and helping Paul minister for a time, Paul sent Onesimus
back, but not empty handed. Paul wrote a
personal letter to Philemon appealing to him as a friend. He asked him to forgive Onesimus all wrong,
and accept him back not as a slave, but, as a fellow brother in Christ. So you can imagine the look on Philemon’s
face as his prodigal slave stood before him, truly sorry, and as he read these
words of the Apostle Paul. Read verse
1-11)
Paul starts with identifying himself, then names the
people he wanted to read the letter, and then takes time to specifically praise
Philemon. Now he is beginning his appeal
in verse 8.
#1: The Apostle’s Authority (v8)
Notice
first the Apostle’s Authority in verse 8, “Therefore, although in Christ I could be
bold and order you to do what you ought to do”. Paul does not mention the fact that he is an
Apostle, but he is clearly referring to it in this verse. People who have authority give orders and
Paul could have come at Philemon with a command because of his Apostolic
authority.
The
highest human authority in the Church is the Apostle (1 Cor. 12:28; Eph. 4:11). They were called and commissioned by God to
be witnesses of the resurrection of Jesus Christ (Acts 1:22-23; 1 Cor. 12:28). They were empowered to do miracles, healings,
exorcisms and other wonders (2 Cor. 12:12).
They were given authority in the Church so that their teachings and
instructions were binding upon the body of believers (2 Cor. 13:10). They were the human vessels God used to
establish the Church upon the earth (Ephesians 2:20). After their purpose was fulfilled the age and
office of Apostles discontinued (see here)
As an Apostle,
when the occasion called for it he could be very bold. Notice he says that he “could be bold”. If you are familiar with Paul then you know
that this is a very true statement. When
needed Paul could be severely bold. Turn
with me to 2 Corinthians 12:19-13:2, 10.
Another example is in Galatians 2:11-14.
Application: Do we recognize apostolic authority? Apostles were God’s highest human authorities
in the early Church. Paul’s appeal was
the appeal of an Apostle, and, Philemon would be wise to carefully consider his
beloved Apostle’s request. But the
authority of the Apostle’s continues to this day. Not because Apostle’s still exist, but,
because what they wrote is in the Bible.
Do we recognize Apostolic authority?
When we submit to the teachings of Scripture in the NT that is how we
recognize that these men were God’s Apostles.
#2: The Apostle’s Affection (v9)
Secondly we see the Apostle’s
Affection in verse 9, “yet I appeal to you on the basis of
love. I then, as Paul – an old man and
now also a prisoner of Christ Jesus”.
Paul was not one-dimensional. As
bold as Paul could be, it was not with boldness that he spoke to Philemon. While he could be a lion Paul could also be a
lamb. He was sophisticated in his
ability to persuade people. In other
words, he had more than a hammer in his tool box.
So what we are
seeing here is that Paul did not want to approach Philemon on the basis of his
authority, but, rather, on love. So he
sets his apostolic authority aside and comes to him with love. He wants Philemon to feel the full weight of the
love he had in his own heart towards Paul - which would have been helped by
thinking of Paul as an old man in prison.
Paul
is doing something here I think is great.
He is appealing to the high virtue of the Christian faith: love.
If you look closely he is urging Philemon to do something that you can
only do from love: and that is
forgive. Love translates into forgiveness. Maturing Christ-like love will be more
capable of forgiveness.
But Paul doesn’t
treat Philemon as though he were lacking in love. Just the opposite – Paul knows that Philemon
does “love” very well, which is why in verse 5 and 7 Paul praises him for his
love. Remember Philemon’s name actually
means, “Beloved”, or, “Affection”. So
Paul is doing 2 things here I think we need to see when he appeals to Philemon
on the basis of love.
First,
he wants Philemon to draw out of that deep well of love that he already has in
order to forgive Onesimus. He wants
Philemon to think of his own good character, his own good reputation, his own
awareness of his own personal ethic in Christ and act according to it. (Even to live up to it!)
But
secondly, Paul wants him to grow even further in an area that he already is
very good: love. Paul is putting the issue of forgiveness
before the man and it will challenge him to expand his love even further. His love was going to have to be enlarged in
order to forgive Onesimus. In doing so,
his capacity for love will have increased, and so he will be brought that much
closer to the likeness of the Lord Jesus Christ and his love.
Application: Make your strengths stronger. Keep growing in areas of your spiritual life
you do well in already. Growth is not
just for the weak spots in our lives.
First Thessalonians 4:1 says, “Finally brothers we instructed you how to
live in order to please God, as in fact you areliving. Now we ask you and urge you in the Lord Jesus
to do this more and more.” Verse
10 says, “And in fact, you do love all the brothers throughout Macedonia. Yet we urge you, brothers, to do so more and
more.” See how he affirms them
that they are good at loving, yet, he urges them to become even better? We will be challenged in aspects of our
spiritual life to go from being okay
to good to very good to excellent in
areas of our Christian life. So be
careful when you begin to think “I do that pretty good”, because complacency
will be challenged head on.
Application:
How do we approach people when we are trying to persuade them? Do we recognize when a soft touch is
needed? Or do we always use a hammer? Proverbs 25:15 says, “… a gentle tongue can break a bone.” That means that the power of persuasion is
not always in aggressiveness, but, more often is found in gentleness. Let us be sensitive to when gentleness is the
best approach. Let us be sensitive to
when an appeal to love rather than authority is the best basis for persuading
someone.
#3: The Apostle’s Adoption (v10)
Thirdly, we see
the Apostle’s Adoption, notice verse 10, “I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, who
became my son while I was in chains.”
NT writers often referred to their congregations and converts as their
children.
Philemon has seen
Paul as a prisoner, an old man, and now as a loving father. A father who loves his son dearly - a son
with whom Philemon had a grievance. The
angle here is that if you love the father you show that by loving his son. We see that in our relationships – if you love
your friend then there is a natural transference of love to his child that you
develop. You make me feel loved when you
show my children your affection. So it
is too with God. The Bible says to love
God you must love His Son. It was a
powerful way to appeal to Philemon and another key to hopefully unlock all that
love in his heart and let it come out.
Would Philemon’s great love for Paul now be reflected in loving his son?
But Paul is not
just expanding the way Philemon sees Paul.
He is also expanding Philemon’s view of Onesimus. He is helping his beloved friend see Onesimus
as more than just a runaway slave and thief.
This is so key to forgiveness.
When we have a grudge we get tunnel vision – that is we can only see the
other person for their offense against us.
In other words we lose sight of all the other ways to see them and we
only see them in light of what they did to us.
Paul is moving Philemon around to see Onesimus from different angles in
this letter: Paul’s son (10), a servant
of Jesus Christ (11), a brother in Christ (16), a great help in the work of the
Gospel (11), a repentant man wanting to make things right (v12). He didn’t want Philemon to only think about
Onesimus as a criminal.
There is an
application here for us: If we are ever
to forgive we must not succumb to this “tunnel vision”. We must not allow ourselves to see them only
in light of their sin against us. The
only thing this will do is fuel bitterness within us and perpetuates an
unforgiving spirit. We must pray
earnestly and seek the Lord’s help to see them as the Lord wants us to see
them. This will help us open our hearts
to the offender and forgive them.
This kind of
forgiveness is not forced. Nor is it
done as a favor. Paul is not asking a
favor of Philemon, “Hey, I know you’re mad, but, could you do this for me
buddy?” Paul wants Philemon to own the
decision. He wants it to be all
“Philemon” without any of “Paul” in the choice (v14). Forgiveness is one of the greatest acts of
free will.
There is a
speculative point I want to suggest – a point that brings an application for
us. There is the possibility that Onesimus
was God’s gift to Paul while in prison.
I doubt anyone had the resolve of the Apostle Paul. But I don’t want to think of him as being
more than human. What I mean is that it
is possible while he was in prison he could have had a passing thought, “Is everything I’m doing worth it? Is the sacrifice and the work and the
hardship making any difference? Here I
am in chains. Man I’m a long way from the Damascus road.” If that it is something Paul thought, then
imagine the encouragement he would have had when God led Onesimus to Paul so
Paul could lead him to Christ. He could
have been a gift from God to Paul to remind Paul that “Yes! Everything you are doing does matter, it is
making a difference, and it while it is spreading far beyond you it is also
coming back to you in Onesimus.”
Application: Never wonder if what
you are doing for the Lord’s honor is effective. Everything done for the honor of Jesus Christ
and the spread of the Gospel will be effective.
God makes things grow.
Furthermore, the Lord is sensitive to those times when we need to be
picked up. Wow! What a pick me up when Onesimus accepted
Christ! God knows what we need.
Underlying all of
this is the basic point that Philemon should adopt Onesimus just as Paul
did. Accept him with the affection of a
father towards a child. If he did, unity
and peace would prevail. Paul was
working to build unity in the church.
Paul wasn’t afraid of beatings, floggings, hunger, sneering or anything
– except one thing. He could handle all
of those things, but the one thing he couldn’t bear was division in the Body of
Christ (1 Cor. 1:10; Eph. 4:3). You see
here a man who almost – not quite – but on the verge of pleading with Philemon. Coming from anyone it is persuasive. Coming from a man who was an Apostle it was
powerfully humbling.
#4: The Apostle’s Assistant (v11)
Lastly
we see the Apostle’s Assistant in verse 11, “Formerly he was useless to you
but now he has become both useful to you and to me.” The name Onesimus literally means,
“useful”. Paul is playing on words
here. When Onesimus ran away Philemon
had “no use” for him - he whose name was “Useful” became “useless”. It reminds us of our Lord’s words, “If
the salt loses its saltiness how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything…” In other words, “what use is it?” But now that Onesimus was a believer, he was
useful again, and even more so than he was before. He was useful to Paul, now Paul wanted
Philemon to find him useful again. Now
he was useful both in Philemon’s house, and the house of God. Now he was useful as a servant of Philemon,
and a servant in the work of the Lord.
Application:
When we get saved we become useful.
The Holy Spirit indwells us and gives each of us a spiritual gift to use
for helping others grow in Christ. Each
of us actually become necessary to the whole body of Christ. We can call this “Intentional
Interdependence”. God designed each of
us to need each other. No one is
useless. No one is dispensable. No one can say “I am not useful” and no one
can say, “that guy isn’t useful.”
Sidebar
note: This is why an unrepentant
Christian is such a serious thing: so
long as they persist in worldliness and sin they forfeit their usefulness to
Christ. This is because our usefulness
is predicated on our faithful pursuit of righteousness in our life. Second Timothy 2:21 says, “If a
man cleanses himself from [sin], he will be an instrument for noble purposes,
made holy, useful to the Master and prepared to do any good work.” An unrepentant sinning Christian is like a
lame foot on the Body of Christ, unable to be used. This is why restoring a sinning Christian is
so important too: to restore them back
to a place of usefulness in building up the Body of Christ.
Our
usefulness has nothing to do with how talented or skilled we are, or aren’t. First Corinthians 1:26 says, “Brothers,
think of what you were when you were called.
Not many of you were wise by human standards, not many of you were influential,
not many were of noble birth.”
Our usefulness has everything to do with the Holy Spirit – whom we’ve all
been given. If we have Him we are
necessary to others and their growth and they are necessary for our growth. The point is that it all starts with a recognition
that you can’t do anything in and of yourself.
It’s what God does in you and through you. “With man this is impossible, but, with God
all things are possible.” “Apart
from Me you can do nothing.” “I can
do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Robert Mc’Cheyane, “A holy minister is an
awful weapon in the hand of God.
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