Ephesus: The Church that Lost Her Love, Revelation 2:1-7


            Do you all have your tickets?  Today we are heading to our first of 7 stops.  We are going to a city that was the most important city in the region:  the city of Ephesus.  Ephesus was located in what is now the country of Turkey.  It was a city renowned for architecture, political and economic power.  Perhaps its greatest claim to fame was that it was the location of the great temple of Artemis.  Ephesus was the city to be in.

 

Now on his 2nd missionary journey the Apostle Paul entered this city and established the first church Ephesus had ever seen.  It became a strong church, well established.  It was the leading church out of the 7 churches.  We can be sure of this for 2 reasons.  First, they are the first church Jesus addresses.  In the Bible, whoever is listed first is typically the first ranking.  Second, according to Acts 19 Paul came to Ephesus first, and then from Ephesus the word of God spread to other areas.  These other six churches in Revelation were probably started because of Ephesus. 

 

Let us stop off at this first exit ramp which leads us to Ephesus and see now what our Lord wanted them know. 

 

#1:  Lampstands (v1)

            Notice first that Jesus identifies Himself in a special way in verse 1, “To the angel of the church in Ephesus write:  These are the words of Him who holds the seven stars in His right hand and walks among the seven golden lampstands.”

 

            This is very fascinating to read.  Each church receives a message from Jesus, and each message begins with Jesus identifying Himself in a different way.  Now if you look closely, you will see that the way Jesus identifies Himself to these churches is the way He appeared to John in chapter 1.  John saw Jesus walking among the 7 lampstands holding 7 stars in His right hand, and, that is how Jesus identifies Himself to the Ephesians.  Then, in chapter 1, Jesus said to John in verse 17 and 18, “I am the First and the Last.  I am the Living One; I was dead, and behold I am alive for ever and ever!”  And that is how Jesus identifies Himself to the next church, Smyrna in chapter 2 verse 8, “These are the words of Him who is the First and the Last, who died and came to life again.”  And the pattern goes on like that for all the churches.

 

            Why does Jesus begin this way with each church?  Because they need to “see” Christ first, before they serve Him.  In other words, before your service has any meaning you must know the One whom you are serving.  This is the pattern throughout Scripture.  Before God gives people any commands He shows them who He is first.  Take the Ephesians for instance.  You will remember that the book of Ephesians is 6 chapters long.  However, in the first 3 chapters you will not  find one single command for Christian living.  Instead you will only find a magnificent description of who Christ is and what He has done.  It is only after we understand who Christ is, that is we “see” Him in chapters 1-3, do we then read in chapters 4-6 how we are supposed to live.  It is in the last 3 chapters of the book that we read many directives for God-honoring living.  Here is the lesson:  Our service to Christ must come from our seeing Him.  And it would be equally important to say this:  our service is only worthy when we see Him for all He is worth.  For, to serve Him without knowing Him is nothing more than hollow religion and rules.  Service is always to a Person, not to an impersonal code of conduct.

 

But I want us to learn something about the way Jesus identifies Himself to Ephesus, as the one who walks among the lampstands and holding the 7 stars in His right hand.

 

            First, Jesus is there.  Jesus is not absent.  He is pictured here as in the midst of His churches.  The lampstands we learn in chapter 1 refer to the churches.  What we see here is that Jesus is not ignorant of where His churches are and what they are doing.  He sees His Church, hears His Church, and knows His Church.  There this omnipresence about Him here, like there is nowhere we can be without Him.  The Psalmist said in Psalm 139:7-10, “Where can I go from Your Spirit, where can I go from your presence?  If I go up to the heavens, you are there; if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.  If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, even there you hand will guide me, your right hand will hold me fast.”  What do we see in Revelation but Jesus holding in His hand the 7 stars of the 7 churches. 

 

He said in Matthew 16:18, “I will build my church”, and, therefore, He is attentive with all His perception to the state of His church.  This picture of Jesus among the lampstands is a promise to us that He is always near, always “at hand”.  He is a God whose pleasure is in being close by.  What was the very last sentence in the Gospel of Matthew?  Jesus said, “And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”  We are never alone.

 

#2:  Labor (v2, 3, 6)

            Notice secondly the Labor.  The church of Ephesus was commended for its labor.  Lets look at verses 2, 3, and 6 to see what their labor was exactly that Jesus Christ praised them for.  I know your deeds, your hard work and your perseverance.  I know that you cannot tolerate wicked men, that you have tested those who claim to be apostles but ar not, and have found them false.  You have persevered and have endured hardships for my name, and have not grown weary.  But you have this in your favor:  You hate the practices of the Nicolaitans, which I also hate.” 

 

            Let us notice 3 types of labor. 

 

First, they seemed to be very active in doing good deeds.  The first thing Jesus says in verse 2 is, “I know your deeds…”  Good deeds are an essential part of the Christian life.  Good deeds can never save anyone, they are for those who are already saved.  As a matter of fact, 30 years earlier when the Ephesian church received another letter, from the Apostle Paul, he told them in Ephesians 2:10, “For we are God’s workmanship created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”  In other words, good deeds do not result in salvation, but, rather, salvation results in good deeds.  Paul said in Titus 3:14, “Our people must learn to devote themselves to doing what is good.”  Ephesus was a place where people were doing just that.

 

            The 2nd kind of labor we can notice is their discernment.  Notice what the end of verse 2 says, “I know that you cannot tolerate wicked men, that you have tested those who claim to be apostles but are not, and have found them false.”  Ephesus was a church that was 2nd to none in matters of doctrine and discernment.  Do you know the difference between doctrine and discernment?  Doctrine refers to the teachings of Scripture, the teachings of spiritual truth.  Ephesus studied Scripture and they knew the Bible.  They knew God’s truth.  Discernment however refers to the use of Biblical truths to test things and find out if they are true or false.  Discernment is the use of Biblical truth that you already know to prove whether or not what you’re hearing or reading is true or false.  Ephesus had people coming into town claiming to be Apostles and claiming to speak the truth.  As a matter of fact, 40 years earlier this church was told by Paul to be discerning.  In Acts 20:28-31 listen to what he said to the leaders of the church [read].  Did they do what Paul said to do?  Well, 40 years later when they received a word from Jesus they were commended for doing exactly what Paul told them to do.

 

            Application:  Choose your teachers carefully.  The Ephesians didn’t listen to every bum who rolled into town claiming to be an apostle or teacher from God.  In verse 6 Jesus commends them for rejecting the teachings of the Nicolaitans.  Only a couple verses later Jesus would rebuke the church of Pergamum for listening to the teachings of Balaam and the Nicolaitans, and then rebukes the church of Thyatira for listening to “that woman Jezebel”.  This means choose the preachers you listen to, the books you read, the blogs you read, carefully.  Don’t just read something and put stock in it because the book came from Family Christian Bookstore.  Don’t believe it because the author says they are a Christian.  There are many imposters out there.  You must be a Berean.  What does that mean?  The Bereans were the Christians from the city of Berea in Acts 17:11.  It says that they tested what they heard the Apostle Paul say by comparing his sermons to the Scriptures.  They weren’t taking Paul’s word for it just because he said he was an apostle.  Neither did the Ephesians, and neither should we.  I love what one sister said to me recently, “I’m sick of what other people say about the Bible, just give me the word of God and only the word.” 

 

            The 3rd kind of labor they had going for them was their disgust with the Nicolaitans.  Verse 6 Jesus tells them they’re doing a good job by hating the practices of the Nicolaitans.  Who are the Nicolaitans and what practices were they promoting?  We are not sure who the Nicolaitans were, but, we may have an indication of what they taught in verse 15.  In verse 15 it starts out by saying “Likewise…”  In other words, what is going to be said in verse 15 is similar to what was just said in verse 14.  There is a similarity between verse 14 and 15.  What did verse 14 say?  Read it with me, “Nevertheless, I have a few things against you:  You have people there who hold to the teachings of Balaam, who taught Balak to entice the Israelites to sin by eating food sacrificed to idols and by committing sexual immorality.”  Then verse 15 says, “Likewise, you also have those who hold to the teachings of the Nicolaitans.”  The word likewise indicates that the 2 sins mentioned in verse 14 were likewise being taught by the Nicolaitans in verse 15.  What were those 2 sins?  Eating food sacrificed to idols and sexual immorality. If these are the things that the Nicolaitans were teaching and promoting, then notice that Jesus praises the Ephesian church for hating those practices. 

 

            It brings out the principal for us that as Christians, we are to love what God loves and hate what God hates. 

 

Application:  Christians are not supposed to tolerate everything.  What does that mean?  Does that mean that we are mean and nasty?  No.  It means that we don’t allow certain things to be taught and we don’t allow certain behaviors which are most certainly against the word of God.  Notice what Jesus says there again in verse 2, “I know that you cannot tolerate wicked men…”  And Jesus is saying that is a good thing.  But notice what Jesus says then in verse 6, “But you have this in your favor:  You hate the practices of the Nicolaitans, which I also hate.”  Then notice in verse 20, while speaking to Thyatira, Jesus rebukes them and says, “Nevertheless, I have this against you:  You tolerate that woman Jezebel…”  We don’t tolerate everything and we don’t tolerate everyone. 

 

In today’s world it seems that the worst kind of person is a Christian who is intolerant of certain teachings and behaviors because he is standing on God’s word.  Apparently to the world an intolerant Christian is some sort of contradiction.  The only real enemy today is a Christian who won’t agree everything the world around says she should agree with.  People have this idea that if a Christian is intolerant of something that they are acting contrary to what a Christians is supposed to be like.  It’s like a Christian is supposed to be like whatever the world around thinks a Christian should be like.  But what we are like is not chartered by the world but by the word of God.  And as we read the Bible we see that we are not to tolerate certain things.  We love what Jesus loves and hate what Jesus hates, and Jesus is saying here that it is to their credit that the Ephesians hate what was going on with the Nicolaitans.  (We’ll get to them in a moment). 

 

Let us at EFC be commended by the Lord for our good deeds, our discernment, and our disgust with sin. 

 

#3:  Love (v4, 5)

            We have seen the the Ephesian’s Lampstand, their Labor, and now we look at the Ephesian’s Love.  Actually, we will have a hard time looking at it because according to Jesus it is missing.  Notice what the Lord says in verse 4, “Yet this I hold against you:  You have forsaken your first love.”   

 

            I actually don’t think Jesus was saying they had lost all their love.  He wasn’t saying they had gone entirely cold, rigid and loveless.  What He is saying here is that their love was missing a certain quality about it that it once had.  We might say that in some ways it had cooled off.  The love they had today was somehow not the same as at first.  And that is what I think Jesus meant by first love – I think He meant the love they had at first. 

 

This is interesting when you go back 30 years and see that this church had a reputation for their love.  In Ephesians 1:15 Paul said, “For this reason ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord and your love for all the saints I have not stopped giving thanks for you…”  They were known all around for their great love and Paul had heard about them  while travelling. 

 

The love that was full of zealous devotion to the LORD, the love that was pouring out all over the place in their fellowship with each other.  Something had changed.  It probably was not something that happened over night, but, it was probably a slow and gradual decline.  It probably happened in slight increments as they fell into a kind of routine of doing church with each passing year.  However it happened there are 3 things I want us to realize here.

 

First, our Love is Most Important to the LORD.  When asked what the greatest command was Jesus said, “To love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your strength and all your mind.  And the second greatest command is to love your neighbor as yourself.”  Love is most important.  Paul told the Corinthians that spiritual gifts take a back seat to love when he said in 1 Corinthians 13:1, “Now I will show you a more excellent way – the way of love”.  In Romans 13 we are told that there is no obligation we have except the obligation to love.  Thirty years earlier the apostle Paul said to the Ephesians, “Love is most important in the Christian life.  Notice that Jesus doesn’t criticize them for anything else.  He criticizes their love.  He addresses their missing good deeds, yes, but, He goes deeper than that.  He addresses what was missing in their hearts. 

 

It’s like that old Righteous Brothers song, “You’ve lost that loving feeling”.  If you listen to the verses he talks about how his woman doesn’t do things she used to do when she had that loving feeling.  She doesn’t close her eyes when they kiss anymore, there is no tenderness in her fingertips, she doesn’t have a welcome look in her eyes when he reaches for her, she criticizes all the little things he does.  In other words, somehow  her first love was gone and little things she used to do she doesn’t do anymore.  She probably still did lots of things for him but a change was noticeable. 

 

That’s how it was with the Ephesians.  That’s what Jesus is saying.  “You’ve let your heart lose hold of that first love and now you don’t do things you used to do.”  That’s what He says in verse 5 when He says to them, “Repent and do the things you did at first”.  When you compare the Ephesian church on this point to the church of Thyatira in verse 19 Jesus says to them, “I know that you are now doing more than you did at first.” 

 

To Jesus the inner person was as important if not more important than the outward person.  Of course Jesus knows that if the person is changed inwardly it will result in a change outwardly.  The inner man will effect the outward man.  Which is why He goes to the heart of the matter – their hearts.  They had forsaken their first love in their hearts.  

 

Second, Love is a Decision.  How do we see that here?  Simple.  Jesus tells them to repent.  Notice verse 5, “Remember the height from which you have fallen!  Repent and do the things you did at first.It is something that can only be activated by choice.  When dealing with others, love is something we must determine to give.  Love is not a feeling.  Love is not something that overwhelms you, it is what you choose to overwhelm someone else with.  Biblical love is activated by a determination we make to show someone else we love them – regardless of how we feel.  We may be head over heels for this person or we may be angry, frustrated or resentful of them.  Regardless, showing the kind of love

 

Third, Love is expressed in Actions.  He says in verse 5, “Repent and do the things you did at first.”  Jesus wants them to change their hearts and show it by going back to doing the things they used to do.  But do not mistake Him – He doesn’t want a change in behavior without a change in heart.   Jesus wanted their deeds to be driven by their love.  In 1 John 3:18 it says, “Dear children let us not love with words or tongue but with action and truth.”  Love is to be the driving force of deeds.  This is where Christianity gets hard:  it means giving serious attention to the condition of our hearts.  Jesus doesn’t let us get lazy with the inner person.  To live the Christian life is to live it from the heart outward.  Anything less is hollow outward religious activity.  And believe me that does not please the Lord. 

 

Which is why He warns them that if they don’t repent He will come and take their lampstand away.  What does that mean?  It means that He will be the one who comes and snuffs out their light.  In other words, He will cause the doors of their church to close permanently.  He wanted them to know that it is by His power and authority that they would continue to be a church, and by His power and authority He would remove there church. 

 

That makes me think of 2 applications.  First, Jesus does not love me just as I am.  We often say that Jesus loves me just as I am.  And in a sense that is true, but, it implies that He loves me how I am and it isn’t really a big deal if I grow.  I can just stay how I am and it doesn’t matter to Him one way or the other.  That couldn’t be further from the truth.  Therefore it is better to say that He loves me despite what I am.  It is better to say “He loves me so much He won’t let me stay as I am.”  I am a sinner who is still very far from the holy perfection He desires for me.  That’s why He is very involved in my growth.  In Revelation 3:19 Jesus says, “Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline.” 

 

The 2nd Application is this:  Solutions should always accompany criticism.  Notice that Jesus does not just rail against them for their faults.  He brings it to their attention, but, He gives them the solution:  remember, repent, and renew.  How do we criticize?  Do we do it just to give vent to our anger without any care for making a situation better?  Is our goal just to release our displeasure with something?  Or, when we criticize do we do it with love and a suggestion for how something might be improved in someone’s life?  It brings up our responsibility to each other to be willing to confront someone and be willing to respond when we are confronted.  Remember our message a couple months ago titled “How to Take a Punch”?  It was a sermon that gave us some strategies for listening to criticism so that we could benefit from those times when we are criticized. 

 

#4:  Tree of Life (v7)

            Let’s close with the promise.  We’ve seen the Lampstand, the Labor, the Love, and now the Tree of Life.  Jesus promises that if anyone overcomes He will give them the right to eat from the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.  The tree of life was in the Garden of Eden.  After Adam sinned God said in Genesis chapter 3, He must not be allowed to eat from the tree of life and live forever.”  The tree of life has to do with immortality.  That is the promise of God – eternal life. 

 

            Do you have eternal life?  The message of the Bible is that eternal life is a reality and a possibility.  It is not possible through hard work, religion and being spiritual.  It is only a possibility for those who come to Jesus Christ.  The same John who wrote this book of Revelation wrote the most famous verse in the whole Bible, John 3:16, “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son so that whoever believes in Him would not perish but have everlasting life.”  Jesus is the the One who gives eternal life and you must come to Him.  God gave Him over to death so that He could pay for your sins on the cross.  Believe in His Name and you will receive forgiveness and everlasting life.

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